Daily Prompt – Are you a Good Judge of
Character?
Every question is a loaded question when you carry this much trauma.
I can be an extremely good judge of character. My neurospicy pattern recognition enables me to see red flags that others dismiss. I’m finely tuned to detect injustice, and the espousal of ideologies that maintain hegemony.
That being said I’ve still given space and so much time and power over to truly toxic people because I made excuses for their red flags. We’re all damaged, and I find it easy to understand and empathize with the damage done to others.
I see my own flaws readily. When I encounter a red flag, and try to advocate, and the person responds with what’s wrong with me- I go try to make myself perfect, and make more room for the red flag.
So, no, I guess I’m not a very good judge of character. I want to see the best in everyone, and we’re all toxic.
Survivor Literacy 
What do you think?