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  Emic and Etic – Trauma Informed AnthropologyDecember 30, 2025
  Emic and Etic – Trauma Informed Anthropology I don’t have a cohort of academics to bounce ideas around with, so… Read more: Emic and Etic – Trauma Informed Anthropology
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  50) Paper TrailDecember 29, 2025
  The author’s mom discovers evidence of abuse, and blames and shames to make it go away.
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  43) My First SurgeryDecember 29, 2025
  The narrator recounts their experience of having a ruptured ovarian cyst mistaken for appendicitis, leading to surgery. They reflect on feelings of neglect and misunderstanding from their mother, who doubted their pain. Post-surgery, they continued to endure monthly cyst ruptures while coping with the emotional and physical challenges of their condition.
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  66) Just a Little Mental BreakDecember 29, 2025
  The author reflects on their challenging transition to a new home while coping with disabilities and past trauma. Inspired by a Netflix documentary, they confront buried memories of childhood abuse and the complexities of their experiences. The upcoming posts will delve deeper into their narrative, highlighting systemic violence and societal issues.
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  Survivor Literacy – Saying It Out LoudDecember 29, 2025
  Survivor Literacy – Saying It Out Loud Welcome to Survivor Literacy Where we finally say out loud what our nervous… Read more: Survivor Literacy – Saying It Out Loud
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  29) Sisters Part TwoDecember 29, 2025
  The author reflects on the challenging experience of caring for younger sisters, feeling the absence of their mother. Bath time transforms from joy to a struggle, marked by fear and harsh discipline influenced by the mother’s expectations. The narrator grapples with feelings of inadequacy and learns harmful lessons on parenting.
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  9) Adult Supervision Required (TW) – RevisitedDecember 29, 2025
  The author adjusts to life in Indiana on a sharp learning curve.
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  56) Home AloneDecember 29, 2025
  The narrative recounts a young sibling’s tumultuous experience when their older brother returns home from the Navy after a year. His arrival, marked by shame and visible trauma, quickly deteriorates, revealing substance abuse issues. Tensions rise as the brother’s erratic behavior escalates, leaving the family in fear and uncertainty, impacting their home life profoundly.
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  42) Bonobo Cycle BreakersDecember 28, 2025
  The post discusses the significance of Bonobos and other non-aggressive cultures in understanding dysregulation within society. It highlights how these groups demonstrate mechanisms for regulating aggression and power dynamics, contrasting them with societies that favor power for its own sake. Ultimately, it advocates for examining and learning from these cycle-breaking models.
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  What is Survivor Literacy?December 28, 2025
  What is Survivor Literacy? Survivor Literacy is the practice of learning to understand our lives with authenticity, especially after trauma… Read more: What is Survivor Literacy?
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  65) Asking For HelpDecember 28, 2025
  The narrator recounts the trauma of asking for help in a system where mandatory reporting revictimizes those needing help.
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  28) SistersDecember 28, 2025
  The author reflects on their complex relationships with younger sisters, shaped significantly by the loss of their father. Sister A, often feeling neglected, developed a distrustful personality, while Sister B became the author’s cherished companion. The narrative explores family dynamics, caregiving responsibilities, and the lasting impact of grief on sibling connections.
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  63) It All Fell ApartDecember 28, 2025
  The author recounts tense family dynamics that lead to them leaving home. Here home, school, and work converge to compel the authors risky behaviors.
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  55) Grandma’s GroomingDecember 28, 2025
  The author recounts double-edged memories of visiting Grandma before school in the 90s, where they received old episodes of a soap opera and Rush Limbaugh’s show. Limbaugh’s provocative rhetoric influenced family dynamics and the author’s understanding of femininity, as they engaged in performing politically charged SCRIPTs that impacted their identity.
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  54) Human Trafficking Part FourDecember 28, 2025
  The content discusses the pervasive issue of human trafficking within various societal systems in America, such as adoption, surrogacy, and the military. It highlights personal experiences and the detrimental effects on individuals and communities, urging readers to recognize these connections to promote healing and potential escape from these cycles of exploitation.