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  Relational Field Theory – Even on the Hard Days, the Art is GoodJanuary 25, 2026
  The author reflects on the overwhelming nature of certain days, where expectations and pressures can lead to doubt and a desire for recognition. However, they find solace in art, which provides a genuine sense of truth and coherence, allowing for authentic self-expression despite external chaos. Art remains a constant, unyielding support.
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  Relational Field Theory – Plurality vs. PlurallilityJanuary 25, 2026
  This post explores the concepts of plurality and plurallility, highlighting their distinctions. Plurality refers to the coexistence of diverse identities and perspectives, while plurallility emphasizes interdependence and coherence among these many elements. Understanding this difference is essential for addressing current societal tensions and fostering healthier relationships within communities.
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  Relational Field Theory – PredictionsJanuary 25, 2026
  The Law of Internal Coherence suggests that misalignment between a system’s internal realities and external performances creates tension. In the U.S., pressures for unity collide with internal complexities, leading to attempts to enforce coherence. Increasing plurality offers hope for coherence, predicting a transitional trajectory toward alignment rather than collapse.
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  Relational Field Theory – Institutional TransphobiaJanuary 25, 2026
  The content explores how trans authenticity challenges institutional norms. It argues that while institutions rely on external coherence, trans individuals embody internal truth, revealing contradictions within these systems. Rather than a threat, trans authenticity offers an opportunity for institutions to embrace complexity, prioritize truth, and align values with lived experiences.
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  Relational Field Theory – Transactionality and BlameJanuary 25, 2026
  Relational Field Theory contrasts transactionality and plurality. Transactionality, driven by blame, leads to scapegoating and internal conflict within systems, while plurality embraces multiple truths and shared responsibility, fostering healing and coherence. Survivors embody skills related to plurality, highlighting a shift from blame-based to understanding-driven systems as essential for emotional healing and societal improvement.
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  Relational Field Theory – Making Your Outsides Match Your InsidesJanuary 25, 2026
  Relational Field Theory emphasizes that healing occurs when one’s external reality aligns with internal truth. Survivors often face a disconnect between their true selves and external pressures. True healing involves a quiet, consistent process of authenticity and coherence, culminating in a sense of homecoming rather than transformation, leading to emotional and psychological relief.
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  Relational Field Theory – The American FamilyJanuary 25, 2026
  Family scapegoating is a cultural and systemic issue, reflecting broader societal patterns in American culture. Survivors may mistakenly view their familial chaos as unique, but it mirrors the larger societal dynamics of denial, blame, and conformity. Understanding this connection can help survivors recognize their experiences as part of a universal pattern rather than personal failures.
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  Relational Field Theory – Family Scapegoat TheoryJanuary 25, 2026
  Relational Field Theory explores how internal coherence impacts family dynamics, particularly scapegoating. The scapegoat absorbs family contradictions, becoming a pressure valve for the system. When they leave, the family’s instability often surfaces. Healing for survivors involves reclaiming their own truth, underscoring that strong individuals can bear the emotional load, not cause dysfunction.
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  Relational Field Theory – Law of Internal CoherenceJanuary 25, 2026
  Relational Field Theory emphasizes the importance of internal coherence across various domains, from music and computer systems to institutions and communities. It suggests that when internal structures are sound, external forms naturally align and flourish, while internal chaos leads to collapse. Ultimately, truth sustains, and coherence fosters growth without forcing outcomes.
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  87) A Place for MeJanuary 25, 2026
  The narrative reflects the author’s journey of settling into a new home after a tumultuous and short-lived polygamous marriage. They find solace in independence while grappling with memories of familial relationships, particularly with their mother. Amidst building a fulfilling life and career as a CNA, the author navigates feelings of loss, identity, and longing for acceptance.
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  Relational Field Theory – Saying the Quiet Part out LoudJanuary 25, 2026
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  Relational Field Theory – Before the Precipice BreaksJanuary 25, 2026
  Relational Field Theory explores the pivotal moment before significant personal growth, often marked by anxiety and fear from others. This “pre-precipice rupture” causes connections to fray as people project their insecurities. Yet, such disruption signifies the importance of one’s work and necessitates moving forward, despite the emotional costs of these changes.
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  Relational Field Theory – Standing on the PrecipiceJanuary 25, 2026
  The author reflects on a transformative life season, grappling with guilt over leaving behind impactful work that once defined them. Acknowledging the difficulty of change, they express that letting go is essential for growth. Embracing melancholy hope, they conclude that healing involves truth-telling and stepping into new beginnings, viewing the precipice as a doorway to the future.
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  25) My GenderJanuary 25, 2026
  Protyus A. Gendher’s poem “My Gender” explores the complexities of gender identity through vivid imagery and personal experiences. It reflects on themes of personal struggle, societal expectations, and emotional growth. Gendher illustrates gender as a multifaceted journey filled with chaos, joy, trauma, and resilience, emphasizing self-acceptance and individuality.
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  56) Home AloneJanuary 25, 2026
  The narrative recounts a young sibling’s tumultuous experience when their older brother returns home from the Navy after a year. His arrival, marked by shame and visible trauma, quickly deteriorates, revealing substance abuse issues. Tensions rise as the brother’s erratic behavior escalates, leaving the family in fear and uncertainty, impacting their home life profoundly.