Chapter Twenty Six
Chapter 26 — A Relational Anthropologist’s Guide to Linguistic Theory
The Four F’s in the Land of Language
Linguistic Anthropology has always been closer to relationality than any other subfield. It studies meaning as it emerges between people, not inside them. It treats language as a social act, a cultural inheritance, a relational technology.
But even here, the canon is a mix of kin, obstacles, nourishment, and inspiration.
The Four F’s reveal who moved toward relation, who clung to structure, who fed the field, and who lit the fire.
THE FOUNDATIONAL STRUCTURALISTS
Ferdinand de Saussure
Friend: No — language as system, not relation
Foe: Yes — structure over lived experience
Food: He built the table (semiotics)
Fornicate: Yes — the elegance of the sign is seductive
Relational verdict:
A necessary ancestor of the problem, not the solution.
Edward Sapir
Friend: Yes — language as worldview
Foe: Rarely
Food: He nourished the field with nuance
Fornicate: Yes — his writing is intoxicating
Relational verdict:
A gentle ancestor. He sees language as lived, embodied, cultural.
Benjamin Lee Whorf
Friend: Sometimes — linguistic relativity
Foe: Sometimes — determinism
Food: He brought the idea that language shapes thought
Fornicate: Yes — his hypotheses spark desire
Relational verdict:
A provocative cousin. Inspiring, but needs relational grounding.
Roman Jakobson
Friend: Yes — functions of language
Foe: Sometimes — formalism
Food: He fed the field with categories that still hold
Fornicate: Yes — poetic function is irresistible
Relational verdict:
A structuralist who accidentally built relational tools.
THE ETHNOGRAPHERS OF SPEAKING
Dell Hymes
Friend: Absolutely — communicative competence
Foe: No
Food: He nourished the field with ethnography
Fornicate: Yes — he inspires relational pedagogy
Relational verdict:
A major ancestor of Relational Linguistic Anthropology.
Richard Bauman
Friend: Yes — performance, genre, interaction
Foe: Rarely
Food: He brings the feast of performance theory
Fornicate: Yes — his work incites creativity
Relational verdict:
A key architect of relational meaning.
Charles Briggs
Friend: Yes — metadiscourse, power, authority
Foe: No
Food: He feeds the field with critical insight
Fornicate: Yes — his critique is electric
Relational verdict:
A fierce ally.
John Gumperz
Friend: Yes — contextualization cues
Foe: No
Food: He nourishes with interactional detail
Fornicate: Yes — his micro‑analysis is thrilling
Relational verdict:
One of the clearest relational thinkers in the canon.
LANGUAGE SOCIALIZATION
Elinor Ochs & Bambi Schieffelin
Friend: Absolutely — language learned through relation
Foe: Never
Food: They feed the field with ethnographic richness
Fornicate: Yes — their insights spark joy
Relational verdict:
Core ancestors of relational anthropology. They show how people become people through language.
IDEOLOGY, POWER, AND THE SOCIAL BODY
Michael Silverstein
Friend: Yes — indexicality, ideology
Foe: Sometimes — dense, abstract
Food: He brings conceptual nourishment
Fornicate: Yes — indexical order is seductive
Relational verdict:
A brilliant but difficult ally.
Paul Kroskrity
Friend: Yes — language ideologies, identity
Foe: No
Food: He nourishes with Indigenous-centered work
Fornicate: Yes — his clarity inspires
Relational verdict:
A strong relational practitioner.
Alessandro Duranti
Friend: Yes — intentionality, agency
Foe: Rarely
Food: He brings philosophical depth
Fornicate: Yes — his writing is elegant
Relational verdict:
A bridge between phenomenology and relational linguistics.
Jane Hill
Friend: Yes — racism, mock Spanish
Foe: No
Food: She brings ethical clarity
Fornicate: Yes — her critique incites action
Relational verdict:
A moral compass in the field.
QUEER, GENDERED, AND RACIALIZED LINGUISTICS
Don Kulick
Friend: Yes — desire, identity, embodiment
Foe: No
Food: He nourishes with ethnographic intimacy
Fornicate: Yes — his work is provocative
Relational verdict:
A vital voice for relational identity work.
Mary Bucholtz
Friend: Yes — identity, youth culture
Foe: No
Food: She brings analytic richness
Fornicate: Yes — her frameworks inspire
Relational verdict:
A contemporary relational ally.
Norma Mendoza‑Denton
Friend: Yes — Latina gangs, identity, style
Foe: No
Food: She feeds the field with ethnographic brilliance
Fornicate: Yes — her work is electric
Relational verdict:
A powerhouse of relational ethnography.
Jan Blommaert
Friend: Yes — globalization, inequality
Foe: No
Food: He nourishes with sociopolitical clarity
Fornicate: Yes — his writing is incisive
Relational verdict:
A global relational thinker.
THE RELATIONAL PRACTITIONER
Dr. Pamela J. Innes
Friend: Absolutely — language revitalization, community partnership
Foe: Never
Food: She nourishes through care, continuity, and reciprocity
Fornicate: Yes — her praxis inspires
Relational verdict:
A living embodiment of relational anthropology in linguistic form.
Her work with Indigenous communities is accompaniment, not extraction.
What the Four F’s Reveal About Linguistic Anthropology
Linguistic anthropology has always been a relational discipline in disguise.
The Four F’s make that visible:
- Friend: Those who treat language as lived, embodied, social
- Foe: Those who reduce language to structure or code
- Food: Those who nourish the field with ethnography, care, and nuance
- Fornicate: Those who spark desire, creativity, and transformation
And the deeper truth:
Relational Anthropology is not an addition to the field.

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